For members who report drinking out of boredom, I often remind them that there are probably a lot of other things to do within their busy lives, if they take a moment to reflect. Whether your sobriety has you wallowing in boredom or self-pity, please know that it will get better. Even if you have no idea HOW things can change, trust the process and keep working on it.
Boredom Drinking
- Boredom can be a common relapse trigger for those in recovery, especially in the earliest stages.
- It’s very common for people, especially those with additional mental health issues like depression and anxiety, to drink out of boredom.
- Whether it’s a game night, book club, or even a group walk, spending time with others can make the days feel more fulfilling and purposeful.
Many people claim that they drink for the totally opposite reason — they find themselves drinking out of boredom. Think of times or places where alcohol is normally found. Parties, seasonal events, family meals or work gatherings might spring to mind. Drinking alcohol is drinking out of boredom often seen as a very social activity, but in truth for millions of people, it’s the total opposite. Will eating salads and drinking water make your boredom go away?
Accept that you are in a transitional phase, which will take time.
Additionally, because alcohol can impair judgment and lower inhibitions, people who drink out of boredom may make unhealthy lifestyle choices, such as overeating or skipping exercise. This can contribute to weight gain, poor nutrition, and a decline in overall physical well-being. If you’re already dealing with weight or health issues, drinking to alleviate boredom will only exacerbate these problems.
- Look at the best brunch places and the best coffee shops.
- Explore sober activities that interest you and give you a sense of fulfillment.
- When I was in early sobriety, I was very shaky.
- Additionally, I examine the way mental and physical health as well as our relationships with others impact the reasons people drink and their role in maintaining sobriety long-term.
- The quote is something I had on my vision board when I was quitting drinking, and I still have it on now.
- Reading, taking online courses, learning a language, writing a blog, or a journal or starting a side project are all great alternatives to hitting the pub and drinking at night.
Organise a games night
There’s nothing wrong with boredom, we all get bored from time to time, just don’t get yourself so stressed out about it. Another aspect of boredom is focus, so if you’re in your own home, then you should have plenty to do. If you’re a reader you should be surrounded by books that you haven’t read so you can go and read those. If you’re an artist you can always go and paint; if you’re a gamer there’s always going to be a game that you can play. These are the things where there’s not an infinite amount of leeway in them, I mean, if you sit and do these things all the time you’re going to be bored with them.
Strategies for Overcoming Boredom Drinking
Some individuals may turn to alcohol as a way to kill time, mistakenly believing that a drink can add excitement or ease the monotony. But drinking to cope with boredom is never a good plan, and this habit can spiral into a destructive cycle, bringing more harm than good. By participating in therapy and counseling services, you can develop the skills and support necessary to overcome boredom drinking and maintain a healthier lifestyle.